25 years, 3 lessons, 1 dream

What I’ve learned so far in my 25 years of existence

1. Cliché’ as it may sound, time indeed heals all wounds.

I had been into two romantic relationships in the past and to be frank with you, in both of which I thought it was going to last for life. Well, life may play with us at times and teach us lessons that we would’ve never learned if not for the relationship that I had for instance.

I can clearly remember how both ended, and yes in both relationships I cried as if i was having the last day of my life. It was that painful, and heartbreaking even if I was the one who initiated the breakup.

But in both relationships, I’ve learned the importance of prioritising yourself first, making sure that your cup’s full so you’re overflowing with love, kindness and compassion not only for your partner but also for your other loved ones as well. I’ve learned about having an utmost respect for yourself, for your body and your soul for you’ll be setting the standards, rather how you treat yourself is how your partner is going to treat you. That’s why now, I’m quite busy loving myself, honing my God given gifts and making sure that I feel happy and fulfilled with my life.

Indeed, I had given my all in both relationships and they had taught me to be stronger, more resilient and most importantly, to cultivate an attitude of Self Love, for all time.

2. The only distance between you and your dreams is called ACTION.

All of us have dreams, passions and aspirations in life.But why is that only a few people seem to enjoy and say, “live their dreams” in life?

Dreaming, aspiring and winning begins in the mind. We have a lot of dreams in life that we wish to achieve. But the main question lies in the action that you take every single day to make that dream happen.

Are you doing the things you said you’ll do even if you don’t feel like it? Or are you just thinking thoughts about your dreams and just waiting for things to happen in an instant?

As they say, the successful vlogggers, bloggers and digital influencers’ success didn’t happen overnight. They may look like an overnight sensation but again,they’re not. They had published a hundred videos before they got a thousand or even a million subscriber following. As for me, I’m very passionate about Health, Food, Beauty, Wellness, Travel, Fitness and Lifestyle. I know it’s a broad industry to place my feet unto but what the hell, it’s what’s keeps me up all night and what makes my waking up in the morning worth the while! I know I’m starting from scratch with my Online & Social Media Venture but I’m willing to work hard for it. I’m willing to pour my heart unto it because this is what I love to do. Sharing my passion is what I’m born to do and I’m going to do it with zest, enthusiasm and most importantly love. I think that’s my secret ingredient to everything. Cause again,if YOU love what YOU do, it will never feel work at all. And if it never feels like work, you’d be looking forward to playing for the rest of your wonderful, beautiful and amazing life!

3. Everyone needs somebody in their lives.

(and it cannot just be anybody, it should be somebody that they held importance or cherish in their live)

As a person who has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder, my doctors said that I would be needing a strong social support system to help me manage it more effectively for the rest of my life. I completely agree with what they’re saying and I would also like to modify it, for you.

Whether you have a bipolar disorder condition or not, YOU surely need a strong social support system to help you cope with the everyday’s stresses of life. Just like what I’ve said, everyone needs somebody in their lives. We cannot live by ourselves, and for ourselves alone. We need a strong support system from our life foundation, our family, a strong social support mechanism via our friends and loved ones and a constant system of meeting new friends and acquaintances to keep us learning new things in that of the world. See? You need somebody in your life to share this wonderful experience with. Or else, you’ll be miserably living alone and you don’t want that. You’d want a rich and memorable life in this world and you can have that if you surround yourself with people who continuously lift you up and challenge you to be the best that you could be in your life.

Always show gratitude, love and appreciation to the people you care for the most and the Universe will bless you with a good, prosperous and a happy life for the rest of your time here on Earth.

I’m very happy that as I near my quarter age of my existence in this world,I have learned three of the most important lessons one could learn in a lifetime. I’m grateful to clearly know the things that I want and I do not want in my life, what I’ll allow and not allow in my chosen relationships and what I do desire the most to achieve in this lifetime. I hope you learned something from this writeup and I wish to hear from you as well! You can always communicate with me through my email : adao.princess@gmail.com or send me a message on Facebook: Princess Loirenne Adao or via instagram: itsme_rawbeauty! J

Looking forward to hear from you!

Love lots,

Raw Beauty